A daily pause, a shared journey

Welcome to our 'Thought of the Day' space. Here, we delve into the honest, often messy, and always real reflections of navigating life after loss. Every day, we share a thought, a question, or a feeling, hoping to connect with you and remind you that you are truly not alone in this intricate journey.

Today's quiet reflection


Today, I've been thinking about anniversaries, but not the usual ones like birthdays, special occasions or milestones. I'm talking about things like the day you bought your first home together or maybe the first time you went on vacation. The moments we capture and often forget can sometimes come back in a flood of emotions. Some years they are gentle reminders of your past life and other years they really hit you hard. I think it has to do with what is going on in your life at the time. The more stress or other life challenges you face can make your feelings of loss intensify. It makes me wonder, do others feel this way?

What are your thoughts on this? 

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My name is Heather Muir, I am a 50-year-old widow, a solo parent, and a woman learning, sometimes clumsily how to live again.

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Finding your echo

Sometimes, the biggest comfort is simply knowing someone else understands. Our daily reflections are designed to be a mirror, reflecting back experiences and emotions that might otherwise feel isolating. We explore grief, growth, parenting, dating, and the constant reshaping of life after loss. Check back daily for a new perspective, shared openly and honestly.

Holding space, daily

This space is dedicated to the truth of loss. Whether it's a moment of anger, a flicker of hope, or a profound question about the future, we share it here. Our goal is for you to leave feeling a little less burdened and a lot more connected. New thoughts are shared daily, so we hope to see you tomorrow on 50 Shades of Widowhood.

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